I don't want chemo therapy

 I am a healthy 75 year old. , over the years I have been sick with colds,sore throat and other symptoms that I took care of myself with common sense remedies. I have  occasionally been examined for a job physical   but outside of a occasional dentist visit, I have had little contact with the medical profession.

Recently I saw blood in my urine. I let it go for a couple of weeks until I saw blood clots in my urine.a couple of times a day. There was no pain at all but I went to the doctor assigned to my retirement home to get a diagnosis. Doctor #1 sent me for an mri, testing my kidneys and other organs and FOUND NO TUMERS..

This was good news so Doctor #1 sent me to a eurologist, doctor #2. He sent a camera into my bladder and said I have ,what he called, an open sore in my bladder. Doctor #2 said he would have to go in there and take it out.

No surgery was done for a couple of months as doctor #2 was on vacation. On the day of the procedure, they put me to sleep and when I woke up I had  a tube coming out of my penis, attached to a plastic beg connected to my leg which had to be drained every 2 hours.

The tube stayed in me for 1 week, draining my bladder. Doctor #2 tested my urine and there was no blood. Doctor #2 sent me for another mri and again, NO TUMERS.

Doctor #2 referred me to a oncologist and this doctor #3 wanted to sign me up right away for chemo therapy. I told him to hold on, I wanted to think about it. I have a decision to make, I have researched chemo therapy and there are definite negative side affects

I am in good health right now and while I may not be young anymore but I am not yet old. So, should I sacrifice my current good health? I have no pain,I can still run, walk every morning, I play chess, I still get a second glance from women and I can still kick ass.

I asked doctor #2, the eurologist, what would happen if I just let it go and he said I would die.

I have an appointment with doctor# 1 and he asked my daughter to attend. Is this an attempt to pressure me into taking the chemo?

Chemo side effects  Chemo therapy side effects 

My daughter came with me to my appointment with doctor #1 and he gave the same scenario he gave me before but for the benefit of my daughter about how the tumor pennatrated the outer wall of the bladder. I explained my position in front of my daughter, that I only wanted non invasive treatment.

Doctor #1 did not object but explained what would happen if the cancer spread to my bones. This is meant to scare my daughter. I explained that I would be interested in non invasive treatment and doctor #1 said he would check it out.

After my meeting with doctor#1 I thought my intentions were clear.But I get a call from the social worker here at the home for old people, that my daughter had made an appointment with a surgeon. Who told her to do that?

The stradegy here seems obvious, they see my reluctance for chemo therapy and surgery, so they use my daughter by scaring her that if I don't go along with their plan , I would die.

I went to see doctor #4 and he said that eventually not only the bladder but the pro would have to come out. I asked ,how many die from this operation and he said around 1%. I told him not now and doctor#4 referred me to 2 more specialists. I am being passed around like a piece of meat that they all take a bite .He referred me to a oncologist and a immunologist.The oncologist called the next day and I told him to call back in a few weeks

I recieved another call from the immunolgist and when I said ,not now,. She said she would take me off the list of this univercity medical establishment.